Even When You Cannot See...

Isaiah 41:10

 

Fear not for I am with you;

be not dismayed, for I am your God;

I will strengthen you.

I will uphold you with my

righteous right hand.

 

He is always there.  No matter what I face, I need not be

dismayed.  He will give me strength.  He will hold me

up with His righteous right hand.

 

Adventures in traveling.... When I arrived at Charlotte, it showed

Andrew's flight is delayed and will arrive an hour later

than expected.  I don't panic.  I go the customer

service counter and ask.  She says the flight is indeed delayed and

that there is no way for him to make our flight to

Washington, DC. 

 

She starts giving me options. 

 

Yes, she can get Andrew on a flight to Baltimore. 

It will arrive at 9:30 and then he can rent

a car and drive to DC. 

 

No, she can't get me on that flight with

him.  There is only one available seat. 

 

No, there are no other flights to Washington, DC,

not tonight, not in the morning, that will get

him to DC in time for our international flight.

 

I am praying, "Lord, we need an answer."

 

I get Jason on the phone.  He comes up with a Plan B.

 

He says for me to take my flight to DC.  We

will leave a message for Andrew to call

Jason as soon as he lands with instructions

to take the flight to Baltimore.

They will rent a car in DC and have some of the men

from the team drive me to Baltimore.

We will be there to pick Andrew up when he arrives.

It is an hour drive from Dulles to Baltimore.

 

I call my husband for advice.  Plan B is good.

 

When I go back to the customer service agent to confirm that she

will have a seat for Andrew on the Baltimore flight, she tells

me what we could not see...

 

The radar has updated.

Andrew's flight is on time and he should be arriving in

about ten minutes at that gate right over there.

 

As I arrive at the gate, I get a text message from Andrew

that his plane has landed.

 

As I sit on the plane to DC, waiting to take off, with

Andrew sitting a few rows behind me, the Lord whispers

Isaiah 41:10.

 

He always has the answer, even when I cannot see.

He is always there.  I can always trust Him.

 

Oh, how I need His strength for these days ahead!

 

I know I can trust Him.

 

I know He will give me the strength that I need.

 

I know He will uphold me with His righteous right hand!

 

We are safe and sound, ready for a good night's sleep.  The rest of the

team that we have met so far are wonderful, fabulous.  We are

feeling very excited, blessed and ready to go and serve and see

what God has in store for all of us.

 

Thank you all for your support and for praying.  It means so much.

 

 

 

In Him,

 

Shelli





What All the Sisters Need to Know

We've all been there, haven't we?  All the pain and sadness of a broken world descending right upon our life, right where we live.  We've suffered a hard blow--maybe a health problem, a death of a loved one, a lost job, or a wayward child.  Or maybe we are just bone tired of the day-to-day struggle of life and raising children.

It's happened to me too.  I've been in that dark, lonely place.  I gave up on God.  I couldn't seem to figure life out and God didn't seem to be there at all.  For years, I felt so lost.  My daddy would try to explain it all to me.  My husband would try to encourage me.  They made it sound so simple.  But no matter how I tried, I struggled to walk with God.  Life was difficult.  I was tired and in pain.  Things weren't turning out like I had thought they might when I was younger and had my whole life ahead of me.  Time was slipping away and nothing of importance was being accomplished.  I was failing.

All I ever wanted was to know God.  Occassionally, I would cry out to him and tell him that.  But mostly, I turned away feeling even more alone. 

I had a mask I wore. It was something I could hide behind so no one would see me. And Monday through Friday, I could put on that mask and somehow stay strong enough to make it through.  I could go to work and take care of the kids, but otherwise, I did a lot of hiding.  Come the weekend, I wasn't strong enough to keep the mask on anymore and I'd crumble.

All my failures and shortcomings were bigger than life and I felt like I had no life.  I was depressed.  Several years previous, I remember a neighbor of mine talking about depression and I just couldn't understand what the problem was--now I know...

I have learned over the  years that just because  you know the right things in your head, doesn't mean you can control your feelings or what you do about them.  Depression is real and its hard.  It was a whole lot of stinkin thinkin, but I didn't know how to overcome it.   I needed help and eventually found a solution that lightened my mood enough that I could make some positive progress on controlling my thoughts.   But even after the depression lifted, I still felt so far away from God.  There had been too much time gone by in that desert.

Don't we all have similar stories?  All us sisters?  Your heartaches may be a little different from mine, but somewhere along the line we have all been hurt, felt lost and alone or abandoned.  We desperately needed a savior--the hurting ones in need of a rescue.

And all us sisters, we all agree.  We all know that besides desperately needing a savior, we all need each other.  That our sisters, they are truly Jesus with skin on.  They are the ones in the flesh who hold us when we cry, listen when we need to talk, love us no matter what, and encourage us to go on.  Even those of us with the best, most understanding husbands still know, we need our girlfriends.

Truly, all we really need is Jesus, but aren't we all just so very grateful that he gave us sisters?  Heart sisters.  Sisters that understand us and really hear what we are saying. They help us see beauty when we only see mess.  They help us hold on to hope when we are only broken.  They strengthen our faith when we are too weak to stand.  And some of them weave stories and words of encouragement that lead us straight to the Savior.  Oh how grateful I am for these sisters.  

Because who are we anyway?

We are broken.  We are the hurting, the sinners, the ones who just can't get it right.  Over and over.

And my Karamojong sisters in Uganda, they describe themselves as dirt.  It seems to be a universal problem.  Why do we see ourselves as not good enough, not worthy of love, terrible mothers, bad wives.  Why do we gage our lives by our failures?  How can we turn this around?  How should we gage our lives?  Measure ourselves against who or what?  Why do we see ourselves as less than our heavenly Father sees us?  Why don't we see what He sees when He sees us?  Why are our hearts so darkened from His truth? How do we dispell the darkness?

Praise the Lord!  He drew me in His loving kindness, back to the word, to His heart for me.  His words of love poured light into the darkest places of my heart.  All while I thought He was so far away, He was right there.  He was always there.

I will rejoice and be glad in your steadfast love,
because you have seen my affliction;

you have known the distress of my soul. Ps 31:7

He reminded me that IN HIM, I am:

 

CHOSEN

Even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world,
that we should be holy and blameless before him. Eph 1:4

ADOPTED

In love, he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus
Christ, according to the purpose of his will. Eph 1:5

ACCEPTED

to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has accepted

us in the Beloved (in Him). Eph 1:6

FORGIVEN

In him, we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness
of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace. Eph 1:7

HEIRS

In him, we have obtained an inheritance having been
predestined according to the purpose of him who works all
things according to the counsel of his will. Eph 1:11

SEALED

In him, you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel
of your salvation and believed on him, were sealed with the
promised Holy Spirit. Eph 1:13

 LOVED

 ...I have loved you with an everlasting love.  I have drawn

you with loving kindness.  Jer 31:3

 



 

I seems so elementary, but I literally forgot who I was.  I am so thankful for His sacrifice that allows me to be  found "in HIM." 

So thankful for his promises that he works all things together for our good,

that He who began a good work in us will complete it,

that there is no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus,

that nothing can separate us from His love,

that we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us,

that we can be transformed by the renewing of our minds so that we can know the will of God.

 

Spending time allowing God's truth to fill our mind means there is less room for those negative thoughts that keep us from walking "in Him." 

 

I know our dear Karamojong sisters in Uganda struggle with these same issues, but it looks quite different for them.  They are living in mud homes that are one room, the size of our kitchen, with dirt floors, straw mats for their children to sleep on, and a sheet hanging over their doorway.  Maybe their husband died, or has left them, or has come home drunk and beat them.  Maybe they are sick or have a sick child and have no medicine or way to see a doctor, and maybe that child dies.  Maybe they don't have food to feed their children.  Maybe their toddler doesn't have underwear.  Maybe their six year old broke his arm and it is healing deformed.  Or their sister died and they now have her children to care for as well. 

 

Their lives are hard in a way we can't comprehend.  But they hear the lies too.  They believe the same lies, that they aren't good enough, that they aren't worthy of love, that they are bad mothers.  They need sisters to stand beside them and speak truth over their lives.  To point them to the Savior, the one who loves them and sacrificed himself so that they too can be found "in Him."  Just like us, they need to know who they really are, not based on what they think or feel.  It's based on truth.  On God's word. 

 

 

In two weeks, I will be in Uganda.  My team will have several opportunities to minister to women.  And two days with my Karamojong sisters!   I have prayed for the opportunity to see them again and spend some real time loving them and investing in them.   

 

Pray for me that I will walk in the truth while I'm gone.  I don't want to hear the lies that I am not enough, that I have nothing to offer these women, these sisters that my heart so dearly loves.   And pray for my Ugandan sisters, the ones that might be hearing the lies, that I will boldly speak truth to them so that they will know who they are in Christ. 

 

His grace is sufficient for me, his power is made perfect in my weakness.  I don't want to be who I am.  I want to be who he is in me. 

 

In HIM,

 

Shelli

 

 

 

Can't Go?....Send Love!

Call me crazy, but I had this fantastic idea!

Those of you who know me won't be surprised.  I tend to overdo.  I'm a little over the top sometimes.  A little bit is never good enough when you can do more.  Right?

It all started with the idea that anyone who sponsored a child before I leave could write a letter to their child for me to hand deliver.  I mean, if I sponsored a child, I would want an opportunity to reach out to that child and send a letter, send my love in an envelope, my words on a page to bless and love on that child as best I could from here in Kansas all the way to there in Uganda.  I would want to do that. 

All my new sponsors were only happy to agree with me and write letters to their new children, welcoming these little ones into their hearts and families. 

And for me, the one who gets to deliver all that love?  I am so excited.  What a fabulous mission!  While I'm visiting the school and the children, I will be able to shower them with love not just from me but from their sponsors too.

This is Patricia...

 

and this is love, sent from Josie...

 

 

 

 

How wonderful!  Can you even imagine how excited I was when I saw how Josie signed her letter?

She signed it:

 

Sending Love,

Josie Purvis

 

Amazing!  What a sweetheart! 

 

But wait, if we don't have all 71 kids sponsored by the time I leave, some of my "babies" will have love arrive in an envelope and some won't.

 

And that is where my crazy idea came into play.  And that, my dear friend, is where you come in....

 

Maybe you can't commit to sponsoring a child right now.  Not that you wouldn't like to, but....  Yes, I do understand. 

 

So instead, how about you just love them.  How about you just send them love in an envelope.

 

Isn't it just perfect?  You will be so blessed and they will feel so loved!

 

It's so simple.  Just email, facebook or leave a comment below and let me know that you would like to send love to a child.  I will respond by giving you a name and a little information about a child.  Then you can write your letter adding photos, stickers and colors.  Use your imagination.  Letters can be sent to:

 





www dot sendinglove2uganda at gmail.com

or

P O Box 404
Tribune, KS 67879

Please give yourself plenty of time to get letters to me. I need them all safely tucked away in my suitcase by May 22.

Feel free to ask for more than one child. We have 46 children who need "love" sponsors. One friend and her children are sending love to ten. Another young girl and her bible study group are going to write letters together.

We can do this! We can all do this!

Who knows, maybe their teacher will have them write letters and send love back to us and we will all be doubly blessed!

If by chance in the process of sending love in an envelope you decide that you want to keep this child in your heart and family long-term, we will be happy to help you set up your sponsorship. Our sponsorships are $30 a month. Every dime goes to cover the childrens' school fees and supplies, and two meals a day. There are no administrative costs. The money doesn't go to an entire village and only help in an obscure way. It only benefits the children who attend Home Again Ministries School/Bethel Junior School.

You can be sure, when I return, I will post pictures of the children receiving their love from all of you.  Can you just see their happy faces?

 

This is already amazing!  Seriously, it really is a great idea...

So, who will you send love to? Scovia, Joseph, Rodha, Mercy, Frank, Ivan, Christine, Samuel?

 

Let's do this!!!

 

Sending Love,
Shelli